tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-90136638082314114422024-03-13T12:20:31.542-04:00The Cookoo's NestAnnahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.comBlogger104125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-18423218136307668072013-01-20T21:09:00.000-05:002013-01-20T21:09:29.594-05:00TFI: Back in the GameSo I took about 6 months off from being an Advocate for The Forgotten Initiative. We had so much going on and so many changes happening in our house (or lack there of) that I just needed to regroup and get my feet up under me before I started doing ministry outside of my own family again. The break was needed, but I'm SOOOO glad to be back in the game! <br />
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Ministry and evangelism type stuff is a little bit strange in ways. You need to take breaks to refill your tank at times (sebaticles, etc), but the more you do ministry activities, the more entrenched and excited you get. I'm excited to say that I'm pumped about foster care ministry again! The more I pray about it and talk to people about it, the more pumped I get. So don't be surprised if I actually start talking about adoption issues and ministry opportunities and all kind of crazy stuff again soon. <br />
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Heck, I might as well start now!<br />
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<strong>TFI Charleston is a GO!</strong> <br />
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The facebook page is up and running and you can find a super short needs list for our area <a href="http://www.theforgottenblog.org/p/charleston-sc.html" target="_blank">HERE</a>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-39252261681752522062013-01-13T12:17:00.000-05:002013-01-13T12:17:18.749-05:00Photo Dump!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
Just in case you were wondering, Layla IS still alive and kicking. She won't really sit still long enough for a proper photo shoot anymore, so here's a look at what we've been up to the last couple of months!</div>
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Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-71710316006134550362013-01-12T20:31:00.000-05:002013-01-12T20:34:26.315-05:00Dirty Little LiesA little less than a year ago, I went to a women's retreat with our church at the beach. God showed me A LOT about myself and about His place in my heart's desires. At the time my struggle was letting fear rule my emotions and my actions. While I was dealing with all the truths He was throwing at me, many of the other women were dealing with how to handle and recognize spiritual warfare. To say that I wish I was able to spend more time soaking up their knowledge and experience with this subject would be the understatement of the year. <br />
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It has been months since I last wrote a blog post. Honestly, it has been months since I've done a whole lot of anything besides just survive. I laid down my ministry with foster care, stopped being real with most of my friends, lost control of my emotions (and many times, my temper), and simply gave myself the goal of making it through the day. This is no way to live. <br />
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About a month ago, God sent me a message: "Stop believing the lies. Know who they are coming from." I knew instantly what He meant. Each day and night a voice had been whispering in my ear every time I was alone.<br />
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"You're going to lose this baby."<br />
"You're not a good mother."<br />
"You're house is never clean."<br />
"You aren't a good cook."<br />
"You're body is ugly."<br />
"You're husband doesn't love you."<br />
"You're husband is cheating on you."<br />
"You don't have any friends."<br />
"You're worthless."<br />
"You're emotionally unstable."<br />
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Now that I've written them down, they look pretty ridiculous...... But when you've moved to a new city, you've quit working and are staying at home with a toddler, you know practically no one to hang out with, and you're freaked out about being pregnant, its pretty easy to believe every single one of those statements. The real problem lies in the fact that the Devil doesn't get in your face and scream at you. He is quiet and consistent. You don't even know that he's been feeding you his garbage until you have already completely agreed with him and you can barely function anymore. This is where I've been: in the pit. (What's really strange is how many women go through this during or right after pregnancy. We'll talk about this later though.)<br />
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These are the lies I refuse to accept as truth any longer. <br />
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This is the pit that I'm climbing out of. <br />
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<em><strong>"I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made"</strong></em></div>
Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-84391451225562810562012-10-01T22:58:00.001-04:002012-10-01T22:58:47.579-04:00Reinventing MyselfThere has been a couple of times in my life that I've had to change who I am. The summer I met Ryan was one of these times. God changed my heart and my goals that summer. Six years later, He's changing me again. He's asking that I take a good look at my priorities, my goals, and my ideas of success.<br />
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It's been about 2 months since I quit my job. To say that it has been an adjustment being at home full-time would be a huge understatement. Watching Layla all day is hard. I have more respect for my stay-at-home mom friends than I ever had before. The kicker is that Layla is great kid. She's easy. She's almost always in a good mood and she plays by herself pretty well. She's not a picky eater and is pretty easily entertained. All this to say: I have it good. I love hanging out with her and seeing her learning new stuff all the time. <br />
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There's a lot of really fabulous perks to staying at home. It's not all fun and games though. I've been sick a lot lately (more info on this TBA in a couple of weeks.) There are days when Ryan gets home from work and dinner isn't cooked and I'm wanting to beat my head against the wall because our apartment looks like a I haven't cleaned it in weeks and I swear that I vacuumed and picked up the whole place less than an hour ago. Let's be honest: I don't clean the floors because Maddox has knocked something over or shed too much. I clean the floors because Layla dumped an entire box of rice and/or Goldfish on the floor and tried to eat/crunch them up into tiny pieces. <br />
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Every day is similar to the days before. Wake up when Layla decides to wake up; make and eat breakfast; play and go for a walk; decide it's naptime; take nap while she naps; wake up when she wakes up; make and eat lunch; play; decide it's naptime; clean up while Layla naps; attempt to make dinner.<br />
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Some days we go places. Some days I take two naps. Some days I turn on Dinosaur Train (only a select few people will even know what this is.) Some days I go to bed wondering what it is that I've done all day. <br />
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The brutal truth is that these days don't feel like much of a success to me most of the time. I'm not used to measuring how well I'm doing by how many times I didn't raise my voice at Layla and how much time I spent actually playing with her and showing her love vs letting her watch TV. Up until 2 months ago I knew how well I was doing by my school grades and how many cases I could get through at work. Success was tangible and my hard work always paid off quickly. These days I'm not even sure what success looks like for me. <br />
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The weird thing is that this whole thing reminds me a lot of my personal walk with God. It's so easy for me to base my identity and success as a Christian on how much I'm doing. When all the stuff that I'm doing gets taken away and I no longer have all my "works" to remind me who I am, I have nothing left but Christ as my identity. So I'm reinventing myself. I'll be the first to admit that I honestly have no idea what I'm doing as a stay-at-home mom and I have a TON of learning to do. But I'm trying to take it one day at a time and find little victories throughout the day. Obviously, ANY advice is greatly appreciated!<br />
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<br />Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-30295221271220841662012-09-06T21:46:00.001-04:002012-09-06T21:46:08.734-04:00ChangesIt's pretty sad when you can't remember the last time you wrote a post.....<br />
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Life has been, well, changing. Layla is 13 months old. I'm officially a stay-at-home-mom. Ryan is working in charleston. Tomorrow is the start of moving weekend for the rest of us as our apartment is finally ready. I'm officially a USC grad. A couple of other stuff has been going on as well but I won't share about that for a bit longer.....<br />
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One thing I can say through all of this change is that Ryan and I are beyond certain that God is moving us to Charleston for a reason and we are super pumped to finally be getting there this weekend. I'm also beyond excited to have my own home again, even if it is a two bedroom apartment. Living with other people is HARD. It's like having roommates again... Except with a one year old thrown in for extra craziness. :) Layla has seemed pretty oblivious to it all. Lucky her....<br />
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Regardless, I'll be so happy to get my sweet pup back home. I've seriously been missing Maddox this last month at home. I know Layla and I could use the company during the day. On a side note: hooray for Kit for informing me that Kiawa is a dog-friendly leash free beach. I will most likely be spending my Monday afternoon there with my favorite people and furry friend.Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-15232266438649120312012-07-13T09:10:00.001-04:002012-07-13T09:10:27.959-04:00The best laid plans......of mice and men often go astray.......<br />
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Of if you don't like cryptic messages: We're moving to Charleston.<br />
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Shocker, I know. We're still processing this ourselves. We certainly didn't come up with the idea on our own. Last Thursday Ryan was informed that he's being "indefinately" assigned to work in Charleston. I'm not really a fan of that word. It means "we aren't really sure how long this is going to be, so just don't make any plans." His time frame is most likely 6 months to a year. That is 6 months to a year of traveling to and from Charleston 5 days a week. That sounded pretty terrible to me. Apparently, it sounded pretty terrible to Ryan too. So he asked his boss man if he could work in Charleston permanently if we were to just move there. Answer = yes. <br />
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God has funny timing with things like this. While this summer is absolutely hectic, He threw us this curve ball at the exact perfect time. We will, in fact, be homeless after July 23rd. Our current house sells that day, and we were planning on living with the in-laws for at least a month and a half until our new house would be finished. Turns out we won't be buying that big beautiful new home after all. The builder will sell it to some lucky couple who will benefit from my design prowess (jk of course). I FINALLY finish school on August 2nd and I was going to be looking for a new job soon regardless of where I was living. When Ryan told me that I could quit my job and be a (GASP) Stay at Home Mom for a couple of months at least, I kinda couldn't help but say ok.<br />
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We have a lot of details that we still haven't worked out. We don't have a place to live. We don't know where we want to live. We don't know when we're going to officially move down there. We have no idea what church we're going to go to. We have no idea who is going to step into our leadership roles in the ministries that we are involved in. There are a LOT of unknowns, and for some reason we are ok with that. Yes, it is a shocker when you walk into a two bedroom apartment and realize that instead of getting more stuff, you have to get rid of half your stuff. But God is good even in the crazy. <br />
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All we know is that He's given us an amazing peace about this whole thing, and we're all in this together; even the dog..... Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-22370006558592805852012-06-26T08:33:00.001-04:002012-06-26T08:33:17.312-04:00HiatusI'm going to be taking a bit of a break from the blog for a couple of weeks. There are a LOT of changes going on in our house, and I really don't have a ton of extra time to write posts. Layla will be a year old in less than a month and I want to spend as much time as I can focusing on her and Ryan in the itty bitty amount of spare time that I have. We're hopefully only going to have about a month of crazy and I should be back with billions of updates in August. <br />
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In the meantime, we would really love your prayers this month. We're going to be logging a lot of travel/moving/studying/working hours and can only hope that we come out unscathed and still mentally stable on the other side. Alas, it is better if we push through. :) <br />
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See you in a month or so!Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-24760373387842093432012-06-20T08:27:00.002-04:002012-06-20T08:27:12.026-04:00Adoptable Tuesday (on Wednesday): Dakota!Have you ever seen a picture of a child that just makes you want to smile back at him? When I first saw Dakota's picture, that's that I did. This kid has a terrific smile and some seriously kind eyes. Any USC dad's out there? <br />
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I haven't posted many updates on the new house lately. Honestly, our current house has been for sale for 5+ months and we were beginning to think that maybe we weren't meant to move at all. We started wrestling with what that reality meant for our family. I started doubting if God really wanted us to have a larger family. After all, we really don't have much room to put any other children in our current home. </div>
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But of course, in His perfect timing, we got a bite. Just as we were about to throw in the towel and say that it wasn't His plan for us, an offer came through. As of Saturday morning, our house is under Contract! If all goes well with the inspection, we'll be moving out on July 21st. </div>
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This is how far along the new house is:</div>
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They've been taking their sweet time in building it because of our current house situation. If we were unable to sell our house, then the builder would have to put this one on the market. Now they don't, so they'll be speeding along. Originally, we were told it would be done in July. They are still saying that an end of July closing date is realistic. We'll see.....</div>
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The house has been sided (mostly) and the inside has been sheetrocked. Cabinets, painting and base molding are next. Then flooring will go in along with countertops. </div>
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This is the view from the dining room into the den. My favorite thing about this house is how open everything is, while still keeping rooms seperate.</div>
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This is the view into the kitchen. That random wall will be an island.</div>
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Layla bought Ryan a rocket for Father's Day. We scooped up a friend's little boy from down the street and shot rockets after dinner on Sunday. Yes, we are nerds.</div>
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My home church decided to take on a diaper drive for TFI last month. I'm proud to say that we collected over 3000 diapers and a TON of wipes. I love how the body of Christ is stepping up and taking responsibility for helping the fatherless in our area. </div>
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This week's featured child in foster care is <strong>Diamond!</strong> </div>
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Go check it out and see what God is doing through The Forgotten Initiative in our local community!Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-84157798411090773432012-05-18T13:18:00.000-04:002012-05-18T13:18:43.185-04:00Why Not?God is good. God is sooooo good.<br />
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Can we talk about how super pumped I am that I've gotten to talk to multiple people in the last couple of days about whether they should foster/adopt? Some of them are just curious, but some are seriously feeling the tug of God on their hearts. Regardless of how far along they are in wrestling through it, I'm ecstatic to see people genuinely thinking about what it would look like in their life.<br />
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With that said, I've heard a ton of questions and concerns about how fostering/adopting a child would change everything (both good and bad). Let's be honest for a minute..... Raising a kid is hard work. Adopting or fostering a kid is hard work. There are times when I think about how much easier and simpler my life was before I had a kid. But it is SO worth it! Anybody who has ever had a child of their own knows how rewarding and amazing being a parent is. Adoption and fostering are no different. <br />
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Granted, not everyone is meant to be a foster or adoptive parent, but I don't want that to be your excuse. Let's put aside the reasons why you SHOULDN'T adopt or foster a child that needs a loving home and then ask God to make the decision for us.<br />
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<u>Reasons to Not Adopt or Foster a Child:</u><br />
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<li>I don't have/make enough money.</li>
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<li>They might harm or be bad influences to my biological children.</li>
<li>I'm done parenting. My kids are grown up.</li>
<li>I'm too old.</li>
<li>I'm too young.</li>
<li>We're trying to have biological children.</li>
<li>We'll adopt after we have kids of our own.</li>
<li>They have too many problems.</li>
<li>It takes FOREVER.</li>
<li>I need to get my life in order first.</li>
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I'm just going to throw out there that we qualified for #'s 1,3,7,8,9,10,11,and 12 on that list. God provided beautifully, just as He always promises that He will. <br />
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<strong><em>I'm so glad that He didn't look at me when I was lost and forsaken and needing love and make a list of reasons why He couldn't adopt me as His daughter.</em></strong> <strong><em>Put your list away for a moment and ask; really ask Him why you shouldn't.</em></strong> Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-23085415602722298502012-05-18T11:46:00.001-04:002012-05-18T11:46:57.534-04:00Little Bits and Pieces<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
Lots and lots of stuff has been going on lately! You already knew that of course.... Now that I don't have to think about school every night....or at all really.... I get to think about so many other things!</div>
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And this A-MAZ-ING Frappucino maker Ryan got me for Mother's Day. </div>
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I'm starting my first (and probably only) weekly themed blog post. I'm happy to say that each Tuesday I will spend some time helping you get to know some of the foster children in South Carolina that are currently available for adoption. Every week a different child will be featured. The children listed have requested that DSS reach out and advertise for a family for them. We've graciously been given permission from the South Carolina Heart Gallery to help in the hunt. With that said, let's start off with some Stats for South Carolina's foster system.<br />
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<strong>Jay’s enthusiasm for Science and Biology at school should help him reach his goal of becoming a pediatric nurse. For fun he enjoys playing basketball, baseball, and football. Jay’s favorite food is spaghetti, his favorite movie is The Green Hornet, and his favorite color is red. Jay dreams of joining a family that would provide him with a mom who can cook, a sports-minded dad, and an older brother or sister. He would also like to live in a house with a pool! </strong><br />
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<br />Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-87627216906969003122012-05-10T09:30:00.000-04:002012-05-10T09:30:28.584-04:00Allowing Myself to Grieve, FinallyGod has been opening up some wounds lately that I've never really dealt with. There are two pretty good sized holes in my heart that never healed over. Most of the time, I just skim over that part of our lives. It was too painful to dwell on. The facts are the same though, no matter how much I wish it never happened. <br />
We have had three children. <br />
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I read this post and thought I would share. It's less for you to read, and more for myself....<br />
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"I don’t know what caused her life to end here, but I do know she is in better hands. I know someday I will meet her, this child taught from the beginning by the most perfect parent; a child who has truly never breathed a moment outside His presence." <br />
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<a href="http://www.rageagainsttheminivan.com/2012/05/what-i-want-you-to-know-coping-with.html">http://www.rageagainsttheminivan.com/2012/05/what-i-want-you-to-know-coping-with.html</a>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-54530593592883835342012-05-09T12:02:00.003-04:002012-05-09T12:02:36.442-04:00Sometimes Crap Happens.....I really enjoy writing and I love that I can use this blog to write about whatever I feel like. The past two weeks have been kinda ridiculous, though, and writing has had to take a back seat to more important things. Prioritizing is key when your life is nutso like mine. Priorities have been: <br />
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Another reason I haven't posted a ton of awesome stuff lately is, well, life threw some crap at me. Sometimes crap happens........<br />
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After all was said and done and I finally finished school/bridal/batchelorette parties/house selling madness, I apparently stressed myself out so much that I ended up in the ER monday night because of a migraine. A couple of pain shots and a CT Scan later, and I was snoozing away in a cloud of drowsiness. Tuesday morning proved to be just as crazy when Layla jumped off her changing table and busted her mouth open. I don't even want to talk about how scary it was to look at her crying with blood streaming out of her mouth and all over her hands. Turns out, the doc said we would have been in his office the next day regardless because she had an ear infection and thrush on her tongue. <br />
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I seriously contemplated staying home from work and just hiding in my house today......Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-64697540927292887452012-04-30T15:58:00.001-04:002012-04-30T18:28:02.844-04:00We've Hit the Big Time!Sorry the blog has been quiet this past week. Life got crazy. It's normally crazy, but this time it got REALLY CRAZY. YAY EXAMS!<br />
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Something super cool happened today though: My adoption/foster care/TFI advocate story got featured on LifeSong for Orphans Blog. I find this flattering and yet kind of funny at the same time. I really don't think our story is that amazing or out there. We're just regular people that God has given a passion for orphans to. Its really awesome to see how the stuff that I see as normal has touched people's lives. Anyways, head on over and read our story at:<br />
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Just for fun, I thought I'd share this little picture of heaven with you all. Snoring away.....<br />
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You're turning 9 months old on Sunday. Where has the time gone? It seems like just yesterday that you were trying to roll over by yourself and sit up without toppling over. Now, you can cover the length of the room in 2 seconds flat. You can pull goldfish out of a container and eat them all by yourself. You push a walker and laugh at Diego for the short period of time that Daddy lets you watch TV. Your constant babble and dorky laugh fill the quietness of our house. Just the other day, you snuck into one of the bathrooms and decided that the toilet lid was a drum for you to beat on. You're sassy, loud, and love to be the center of attention. You've never met a stranger in your life. <br />
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I love that you've picked up some of our crazy antics and facial expressions. Sometimes, I think you have my smile. We aren't always the best parents, but we try our hardest to make sure you're happy and know that you're loved. I hope that we're setting a good example for you to follow. I hope you're able to see how much your dad and I love one another. I pray that you'll always know how much you mean to us by the time we spend with you and not the gifts we give. <br />
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One day you'll grow up to be a beautiful woman, but for now you're my little Layla Bean with an infectious laugh and a daredevil streak. Always remember that you were fearfully and wonderfully made by God himself, and you are just right for our family.<br />
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We love you.<br />
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Mommy<br />
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Recently I decided to tackle the task of bringing an organization from Illinois to little old South Carolina so that these broken hearted kids in our own backyard could be shown a Savior who loves them deeply. <a href="http://www.theforgotteninitiative.org/" target="_blank">The Forgotten Initiative</a> is a group of regular people who knew God was telling them that feeling sorry for these children wasn't enough. <br />
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As the South Carolina Advocate for TFI, I've already gotten to see how a helping hand and a little love can bring the life back into the lives of some of our overwhelmed social workers. Just knowing that there are people who care about them and are praying for the work they are doing can mean the world to someone. I was devastated when a social worker told me that she was glad that not everyone thought they were terrible people and simply out to break up families. <br />
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I wasn't sure whether to celebrate or cry on the day that three young teenagers walked into an emergency shelter after school and were literally ecstatic to show me the new shoes they were given to wear to school the next day. <br />
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I was in shock when I heard that case workers have to bring children into the agency and bathe them because they are covered in filth. Then to make matters worse, they have to put them back in their dirty clothes because they don't have any clean clothes to give them.<br />
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I saw how priveledged my life has always been when I heard that many teenagers in foster care have to drop out of school during their senior years in high school because they have turned 18 and are suddenly on their own with no idea how to make a resume, set up a budget, buy a car, get a bank account, fill out the FAFSA or apply for college. <br />
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Is this America? Does this happen in our neighborhoods? Does this happen to our childrens' friends whose parents were killed in a car accident or were caught up in some shooting? Are there people out there that let their boyfriends stick pushpins in their babies and claim they didn't know? Are their kids who are born to parents that are just kids themselves? <br />
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We can't sit idly by and let children suffer for the sins of their fathers. We can't punish a little girl whose father was abusive to her. We can't expect an 18 year old boy with no place to live and no food on his table to wake up every morning to go to high school. We have to show them love. They need a Savior and a God who is bigger than their circumstances, but they need us to show them that God. Healing can come for these little ones, but we have to be willing to let God use our hands and feet to bring it to them.Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-19445074497034191222012-04-13T08:49:00.002-04:002012-04-13T08:49:57.859-04:00The Rise of a Home<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Ryan loves the building process, so we drop by on our way home from dinner and take in what has been going up on this plot of land. It is a constant physical reminder to me of the spiritual fact that a home doesn't just appear out of thin air. You have to BUILD a home. There are millions of tiny pieces that go into a home. Each one important. Each one with a purpose.</div>
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Since this last picture, shingles have gone on and electical wiring has been run. Next up with be installing the windows and doors that are currently sitting in the garage. </div>
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I love our new house, but there is one room in particular that I keep finding myself in over and over again. This room. This second story medium sized bedroom. This place that will someday house two twin beds on either side of that window. This space that will hold squeels and laughter, crying and screaming. This will be the room where two little boys who need a place to rest their heads will find a pillow just for them. This is my favorite room of all.</div>
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<a href="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-CI9zuSdT7Ws/T4gZ8jUJJmI/AAAAAAAAAlY/6F-pEv0sJEY/s640/blogger-image--1093206876.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-CI9zuSdT7Ws/T4gZ8jUJJmI/AAAAAAAAAlY/6F-pEv0sJEY/s640/blogger-image--1093206876.jpg" /></a></div>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9013663808231411442.post-69683924767528384332012-04-12T09:00:00.000-04:002012-04-12T09:00:10.231-04:00Bantu Knots and the Best Website EVERToday is a good day. I just stumbled upon <a href="http://www.chocolatehairvanillacare.com/" target="_blank">Chocolate Hair, Vanilla Care</a>. Today is a <em>really </em>good day. <br />
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Layla's curls have definately gotten more manageable over the last couple of weeks. I changed it up quite a bit and decided that I just wasn't doing it right. <br />
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So now I rely on a couple of awesome products to help me, since I really don't know what I'm doing :)<br />
1. <span class="main-title" itemprop="name">Just for Me 2-in-1 Conditioning Detangler</span><br />
<span class="main-title" itemprop="name">2. Wide tooth comb</span><br />
<span class="main-title" itemprop="name">3. <span class="main-title" itemprop="name">Just for Me Curl Smoother Creme</span></span><br />
<span class="main-title" itemprop="name"><span class="main-title" itemprop="name">4. A shampoo that I can't remember the name of right this second.... </span></span><br />
<span class="main-title" itemprop="name"><span class="main-title" itemprop="name">5. Plastic Hair Elastics</span></span><br />
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<span class="main-title" itemprop="name"><span class="main-title" itemprop="name">Her hair is not as tangled as it used to be and has grown A LOT in the past few months. I've had to start putting it up in sections because it is too short to hang flat, but too long to not look ridiculous. I'm kicking myself because I don't have a picture of how I normally put it up. </span></span><br />
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<span class="main-title" itemprop="name"><span class="main-title" itemprop="name">Regardless, I found this AMAZING website on how to take care of "chocolate" hair. She even tells you how to cornrow and put beads in their hair. PTL! What I'm really psyched about is the Bantu Knots hair style. The tutorial is <a href="http://www.chocolatehairvanillacare.com/2011/01/bantu-knots-or-zulu-knots.html" target="_blank">here </a>. Let's just hope Layla will sit still long enough for me to pull it off!</span></span><br />
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<span class="main-title" itemprop="name"><span class="main-title" itemprop="name">No worries, I'll upload some pics as soon as I am able.</span></span><br />Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05487334444016040055noreply@blogger.com1